Archive for Qualities for the Future

Jan
09

New Year, New Life – Really? Really!

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Grandmothers know that when change lands squarely in your lap, it is time to accept it, adjust to it, and keep going. Now I don’t suggest that this is without some moaning and groaning, mumbling and whining. In fact I highly recommend some amount of whinging to clear that from your system. I have to love where I am to be there, so when I am ‘told’ it all must go, I’m not going to stuff it! It is hard to move on! So allowing  the normal emotions to flow through me is the only way to get on with it for me.

This 2012 thing came at me in December with a will of its own. I ended last year with a bang – not a whimper! I learned that the lovely couple that owns the home I’ve been living in for the last 5 years wants to move in – for understandable reasons. So I’m packing. Then I learned that my email had been hacked and most of my email addresses are gone, my contact lists are gone, and my UrbanForager.co website had been taken over by a phishing scam. So it is closed for now. That pretty much sums it up. Oh yes, and since I had to have a new engine put in my car, it is not the same vehicle at all any more. Good car, but I don’t love it like I used to.

So I have given up my attachment to my car, my home, and whether or not I am an online presence at the moment. What I also know is that when it gets this messy, I look for the Hand of God/dess. Nothing else makes sense to me. What is Creator up to this time, I wonder? So I consult my personal Oracles and find there is no information at this time…Blank Rune, standstill, wait and see…hummmmm.

Taking one step at a time, I am packing as if I will be putting everything in storage. I am getting myself ready for some ‘walk-about’ time. I am sorting and letting go of all that does not serve me now and all that does not bring me Joy. Those are my prime questions for all that I have: Does it bring me joy? Does it serve me NOW? And finally – Do I want to take care of it any longer?

This is an interesting project. I have decided to let go of all the things that are ‘everyday’ and pull out all of the ‘Good Stuff’ I have been saving for…??? The translucent German china that breaks so easily? I’m eating on it until it’s gone. The crocheted placemats Grandmother made when my parents were young marrieds? On the table now to get worn out. You get the idea. Enough saving anything already! My children and Grandchildren get to hear the stories of these things now by being around me as I use them. They won’t know why I have it if it is in a box!

Some I will give away with the story of them attached. Some I will sell if no one wants them. I wish to be free of the ‘saving for…’ syndrome once and for all. It is NOW and they are here, so I will use them or pass them on. This goes for the books as well. I know where to get more, if I remember I want them again. Some I am reading fast, then putting them in the yard sale boxes. I will have no more than 3 or 4 boxes left, and ones I can lift I might add! Cooking and preserving books; plant, bird, and nature books; a few reading books; and some odds and ends like that. I am finding when I pick up a book that I loved and can’t get beyond the first page or two, out it goes.

An interesting idea is that I have shifted so much during the past year or so these books and things wind up being so Last Century, so Last Millennium that they no longer have anything current to say to me! I am climbing out of the sandbox and all the toys I used to love are now no longer interesting except in an historical way. I have neither the time, the energy, or the where-with-all to continue carting around that sort of history. <SIGH> What history I need is in me. This other stuff is really not relevant any more.

So off I go… Keep tuned and I will share some dreams for the future I do have in the next blog! Happy New Year!!

Mar
04

Next Step for Clean Food

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Let’s look at another way to make healthy changes in the way we eat. This time we are going to focus on what is essential in our diet, and which items are just plain dangerous. What things do we need to have as a part of our meals and how does this look when we get to the grocery store?

If we reduce the grocery list to the bare essentials it could look like this:  vegetables, fruit, protein, grains, seeds, nuts, and dairy. Paper products, cleaning products, and personal hygiene products are not foods, so they are a separate expense, and just for the moment we will take them off the grocery list.

When we get back to basics, the handiest way to get there is to use a menu. You don’t have to make them up yourself; you can find endless menus on line. The advantage of making them up yourself is taking into consideration your families likes and dislikes, needs and eating patterns. Some people need 6 small meals a day – more like a series of snacks – and another person likes 3 meals a day. You get the idea. Another thought…eat less of everything to reduce your food bill. In America, we are sending 40% of the food we grow to the landfill! So waste not; want not!

Let’s get into why I buy foods that fill a specific criterion. Let’s take one typical breakfast as an example. I am a person who needs protein and good fats in the morning or I am fading away by 10 am. Some days I have an egg (free range, vegetarian feed, no antibiotics), with mushrooms or green onions and cheese (no rBST), a piece of  organic whole grain toast and butter with a little local, raw honey.  Why the specific types of each ingredient? Read on…

Eggs from factory farms are not good for you. The hens are stressed so their eggs have high LDL cholesterol, and also antibiotics. The free range hens that are fed a diet high in grains, or better yet can forage outside, and don’t need antibiotics because they are not packed together tightly, give us eggs that are much lower in LDL cholesterol and much higher in HDL (or good) cholesterol. Stressed, unhealthy hens = unhealthy eggs. The original research on eggs being high in ‘bad’ cholesterol came from factory farms.

Let’s look at bread now. Bread never used to have ingredients we couldn’t grow and couldn’t pronounce. Most breads had whole ground grains, yeast or starter, water, salt, and maybe an oil. It was that simple. It was made fresh and sold fresh, so no preservatives were needed. We can still get bread like that. However there is one more problem now. If the ingredient list contain any corn products, any soy products, and/or any canola oil, (and is not organic) you are eating a Genetically Modified Organism (GMO) which contains pesticides in every cell. I can find bread that is ‘clean’ and not organic in most supermarkets; however it is just as cost effective to buy organic bread on sale and freeze it. Are you getting the idea? Local raw honey is good for me and helps protect me from local pollen allergies if I have a teaspoon or so a day.

If we simply cut out the foods that, as Michael Pollan says, are “food-like substances”, we will decrease our food bills even if all the other foods we buy are clean and/or organic and more expensive. We will also decrease our medical bills. Here is a list of the “dirty dozen” foods no one should buy unless they are organic because of pesticide residue:  Apples, Bell Peppers, Celery, Cherries, Imported Grapes, Nectarines, Peaches, Pears, Potatoes, Raspberries, Spinach, and Strawberries. If it is too expensive, buy on sale or have as a treat. If you want more information on these and other best green practices go to www.GreenAmericaToday.org or other similar websites.

So the key concepts to changing the way we eat might be summed up this way:  simplify; buy and eat whole foods;  learn how to cook them; read the labels and avoid GMO’s; and beware of all the toxins in prepared foods! (www.care2.com/causes/study-finds-arsenic-in-baby-formula-and-cereal-bars.html)

Nov
26

New Moon

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The New Moon is a time to set your intentions  for the month. The dark of the moon is the pregnant void, the chaos point where all creation starts and all creation returns.  This is a time full of promise and possibility. So I like to celebrate this phase of the moon with an eye towards creating the next month and, therefore, the rest of my life.

This morning I awoke excited by the New Moon.  I rearranged some stones, cleaned up altar spaces, watered and tended my houseplants, and lit an incense stick and some candles. In the brilliant warm sun streaming through the kitchen window, I wrote a check to myself. The date was now, the name was mine, the amount was “Paid In Full” on both lines, and the signature space was the Abundant Universe. Than sends a very strong intent to the Universe, and no limit on how it is to happen! I put it in a sacred place.

The first 24 to 48 hours after the New Moon is a perfect time to dream the next steps you are taking in your world and on your journey. We are always at a decision point about what we are going to drop from our path and what we are going to bring in to our experience. Moment by moment we decide what’s next. Taking the time to make this an aware process and participate in our life actively is key. Paying attention at this level will change the world.

There has never been a time before when everything moves so fast, or changes so quickly. We need to adopt attitudes and activities that keep us fluid, ones that allow us to re-frame our lives and bring in a new script whenever we need one to take us forward to the next best moment. The New Moon allows me the perfect opportunity to reflect on my next (highest and best) step(s).

This monthly pause for reflection and introspection allows time to assess our jobs, our lives, our relationships, and especially our dreams! The New Moon is when the Dream Seed gets planted. It will either happen through a default program that you have been using for years without thought, or you will interact with your own future by becoming aware that you can. It will either be the same old same old, or you will decide to ‘play’ with the program yourself!

The New Moon: A time for intention, ceremony, visioning, and setting the dream for the next month. Just throw one old thought, feeling, belief, or decision out and replace it with a new vision, a new intent. Only one old one out and one new one in each month, or we will feel overwhelmed! Have fun creating some ways of marking this as a special moment in your life. No time? Take a little pocket notebook with you and simply write what’s in and what’s out on the New Moon once a month. Then notice your life…