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Jan
28

Making A Difference

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Sometimes it’s difficult to know what to do first, or how to go about making a difference in the world. It has become increasingly obvious that we all need to do something to help out – especially since it feels like the old programs that run our world have gone berserk – are totally out of control. Making a difference is seen as such a daunting task I wanted to bring it down to the level of do-able by anyone.

First of all turn off the news. You will hear anything you need to hear without being plugged into every dreary bit. There is nothing even-handed or real about the news. It is all sorted by persons whose agenda has to do with selling, not informing. It is a depressing illusion which saps my emotional strength creating an atmosphere internally of hopelessness/helplessness and horror.It creates mass hypnosis and mind lock.

Second, grab a good attitude for yourself. Work on this all the time by deliberately focusing on whatever creates inner peace, joy, and love. There have been times in my life when I had to refer to a list on the door of the refrigerator to remind myself of the things I’m grateful for. Let me tell you though, it’s worth it! You can start with being grateful for a hot shower and a meal on the table; a  roof over your head and a bed to sleep in; sight, hearing and legs to carry you from here to there. Sunshine, bird song, and the changing seasons.

Practice sending out the light of human kindness to your little neighborhood.  See your own home as being a light on the block where you live. See your whole property surrounded by a globe of light, a welcoming, safe, and friendly atmosphere that draws to it more of the same vibration. An interesting phenomenon has happened in every place I’ve lived. I have been practicing this golden globe of human kindness for decades now and the crime statistics in my neighborhood have dropped everywhere I’ve lived. I start with my home and then slowly day by day increase the field of influence to include the whole neighborhood.

Here is a small thing you can do that does make a difference. It attracts kindness and appreciation for others. It improves the neighborhood. The more each of us focuses on kind thoughts about others, openly admiring what others do and say that is admirable, appreciating the little things that affect our lives positively and saying kind and helpful things to strangers, the more this spreads to the rest of the community. It has been shown by research that one genuine smile given to another will change the day of hundreds of people you have never met. It gets passed on faster than a virus in winter!

So smile at strangers. Think kind thoughts. Pass on goodness. Place a golden ball of loving energy around you, your home and finally your neighborhood. When you wake, start the day with five good words (like love, joy, abundance, peace, & gratitude). Have your last thoughts at night be ones of appreciation for the love around you and what you do have. If you can awaken with a smile on your lips and go to sleep with a song in your heart the world will be a better place to live in for sure.

Go there; do that. Live well. We are changing the world for the better with this positive intention. You can bet on it!

Jan
23

Elder Wisdom

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Looking back over the last 50-60 years I am astonished by all the deep changes in the way we live. The information available from us older folks on how to do simple everyday things is encyclopedic and in fact foreign to most of our current Western urban/suburban society. All the people that live in a place where electricity goes out for a week at a time will still know most of this. Most of the rest of us may not have the skills we need to be fine under those circumstances. This leads me to suggest dusting off some old skills and hooking up with people who do know how to live well unplugged.

Moving to a farm as a child gave me the basic experiences of doing it all at home. The farm still had an outhouse, a wood burning cook stove, a parlor stove, a hand pump, a dug well, and a smoke house (the tightest building on the place). Even though I didn’t appreciate it at the time, this was one of the most profound times of basic learning I experienced. Those lessons don’t go away. They are in my body as physical memories. When ever I am placed in a situation where I need to access this information, it is there. Sometimes I can’t remember it in my head, but when asked about it or placed in a similar situation, I am triggered into total recall. This rises from my body, not my mind…like riding a bike.

This knowledge is safety and security. When you know how to prepare food from scratch, sew on a button or make a garment, create a shelter, tell time with a compass or tell direction with a watch, gather food and build a fire, you feel safer in the world. Knowing that each basic item we have can help make something else is useful. The old game of “What would you want to take with you to have on a deserted island?” is a good thought experiment! Actual hands on experience is even more valuable.

Here’s a suggestion for this year and all the years to come: learn something basic every month. If you had one match, how do you make sure you could start a fire? What are the basic skills, the rock bottom ideas that could sustain you if you were tossed out into this world naked? Interesting thought! What would you put in a backpack if you had to leave your home in 10 minutes and never go back?

My first idea? Look for others. Then comes: Trust Life, trust Spirit, be in the moment and remain aware. Allow your instincts to lead you, and when all else seems too weird to manage, make food. “Stone Soup” really works! When you follow the thread of  ‘OK, what’s next?’ everything will flow from that. Staying present and in the moment keeps all the ‘What If’s’ at bay.

In these Change Times the idea of only focusing on what’s next and putting all your energy in that moment by moment experience will free you and keep all the negative worry thoughts out of the picture. You are only responsible for NOW, so just make that the very best possible now, and keep on keeping on. In tough times the only thing you have total control over is your attitude. Make it a good one! I start my day with five excellent words such as : Love, Joy, Abundance, Gratitude, and Peace. I refer to these every time I get into downer thoughts. Believe it or not, this improves my life day by day. It just takes willingness to turn your thoughts to something else! And this is also the very basics of living well –  no matter what!

If nothing else comes to mind, sing a good old song that lifts you up and connects you to others. “Row, row, row your boat gently down the stream…”

Jan
22

Seasons of Food

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Long ago and far away when I was growing up, there was a very different flow of food to the table. Even in the suburban bedroom communities of New York City we had a garden and a dozen chickens in the backyard. Lots of food was raised at home by everyone, even in Brooklyn! And food markets reflected the local seasons. This was before Eisenhower’s highways were finished and it took the better part of three days to drive from NYC to Knoxville, TN. The rhythms of the seasons was reflected in the food we ate. Let me explain.

Every part of our country has seasonal crops and times when every local vegetable and fruit is abundant. Without the far flung shipping we now have there were also times when you simply could not get certain things, and various produce we are now used to never showed up fresh at all. So with the emphasis on buying locally again I have been going back to the way we used to eat – and I have realized how much sense it makes to my body!

Spring was so welcome because fresh green foods could be added back into our diet after a winter diet of root crops, dried, canned and frozen foods, stews, soups and winter squash. It was a natural time to detox and clean out our systems with dandelion greens, asparagus, peas, green onions, lettuces, spinach, radishes and finally strawberries! Spring lamb and broiler sized chickens were again on the menu. Our whole diet was lighter and full of that new green of Spring. The chickens were laying eggs!

The beginning of Summer was a feast of all the early crops and fruits: peaches, cherries, green beans, summer squash, and more greens. This was a wonderful feast time and we ate right out of the garden. The meat on the table was poultry and lighter meals than winter. Although we had started putting food by as soon as there was any extra food in the Spring (Strawberry jam, peas), canning and freezing was now in high gear. We never sat down without some veggies or fruits to prepare for ‘putting by’.We talked about how good it would taste come Winter.

July brought corn and tomatoes, peppers and cucumbers, broccoli and more beans. We ate and canned and pickled and preserved; weeded and watered and fertilized and replanted. More food was on the way! August came with cauliflower, cabbage, beets, later carrots, eggplant, and more squash. Zucchini was left as a surprise on neighbors doorsteps just to get rid of it! Potatoes had started to be dug as well.

The first crisp days of Fall propelled us into a last frenzy of activity to save all the root crops and winter squash for the lean days of late winter. Apples were ready for the root cellar, applesauce, drying, and canned for pies. We waited for the first light frosts to sweeten the kale and Brussels sprouts before we harvested. Rows of parsnips, carrots, beets, and turnips were either pulled and stored or covered with piles of mulch to be dug all winter without being frozen. By the first deep days of winter, the pantry, freezer, cellar shelves, and attic were stuffed with food. Freezer lockers held beef, pork, and chickens; hams and bacon had been smoked and hung in brown paper.

In some ways winter was a favorite season. No more putting food by, tending the garden, or sitting with a bushel basket between my legs cleaning and preparing veggies! This was a time of hearty stews, slow cooked foods, and deeply satisfying soups. My body likes this, too. In Winter I need the depth and richness of these dishes to keep me warm.

Now, as we are in the last months of Winter, I have started to look forward to the greens of  Spring to tone up my body. I am ready to start the plants for the gardens of Summer, and will do better about keeping the ‘winter keepers’ safe and eatable longer. Yes, in a cold climate I do put on 5 to 10 pounds as soon as it gets really cold, but in the Spring with the increase of outdoor activity and the new lighter foods, it all comes off quickly. I love how my body responds to these changes. I trust this wisdom, and I find if I stick to a seasonal diet all is well! Indeed, variety is the spice of life!